It is no secret that African culture is known for its pride. Most
Africans do not have a problem standing up for their beliefs and
causes, and are often ambitious when it comes to obtaining specific
goals. That being the case, if you are of African descent and are
seeking a relationship with someone of your ethnic background, you
probably already have an idea of the type of man or woman you are
looking for.
When it comes to finding the African man or woman of
your dreams, there are many options awaiting you if you hook up with the
right community. You can find the ideal connection you are aspiring
for, by getting to know others who share your same ambitions and dreams. Of course, like seeking any relationship, there are certain character qualities you will want to avoid such as:
Money Suckers avoid a relationship with someone who is only interested in how much money you make. Dramatics someone who takes things to the extreme could really put your patience to the test.
Desperation
If your date is clingy, this is a good sign that he or she could have
self-esteem issues or are desperate for reasons you may not want to
know.
Shady If for any reason you suspect that your date has
something to hide, or has been caught telling you a half-truth or a lie,
it's time to move on. Once a liar, always a liar.
Control Freak
It's true that relationships are about giving... but if you have to give
up all of your free time or interests to appease your date, it's time
to take back control and walk away. Now that you have an idea of what to avoid when dating, here are some of the things to look for:
Beauty
is Only Skin Deep - Of course appearance is an important part of
dating, but remember that it isn't the only aspect that should attract
you. Look for someone who's intelligent; someone with personality.
Common
Sense This is an attribute that goes a long way, and is a good
indication that your date is knowledgeable, and can think on their own
two feet. Self-Respect Any date that has self-respect, will take pride in their own ambitions, and should also respect yours.
There
is no reason why you should feel pressured into perusing a relationship
with someone who does not interest you, or who is looking for different
goals. You need to think about what you want, and give it all you've
got. And you can be sure, if it is meant to be, love will find a way to
reach your heart.
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